TikTok: you will have heard of it. There are those who speak well, others badly. Who has endless fun, who demonizes him. Those who consider it a social network for kids, some of hookers, some of creativity and fun.
But what is TikTok really? How does it work? From what age can it be used? What are the risks for minors? What can parents do to educate their children in technology and not demonize the medium, risking to alienate them more and more?
To clarify this world the National Consumers Union (Unc) together with the psychologist Maura Manca wrote a guide to the conscious use of TikTok. The aim is to help parents use the app safely. It is called "Together with the discovery of TikTok - Guide to the safe use of the most creative app of the moment" and was presented today by the social network, in conjunction with the announcement, on a global scale, of new parental control tools made available to parents to regulate the presence of minors on the social network.
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- What is TikTok
- How to make TikTok safe for little kids
- Guide for parents and teenagers to use TikTok
What can you do with this app? And how can it be used by young people and adults in an educational way?TikTok is a constantly evolving reality. TikTok is:
- It is a platform for the sharing and enjoyment of short content up to 60 seconds.
- On TikTok you can participate, interact and co-create: a peculiarity and strength of the app.
- It is a place for creative expression, thanks to the different means available: effects, sounds, music, etc.
- On TikTok the centrality of content is fundamental. It is not only a social network, but also a platform that provides content.
- Authenticity on TikTok is always rewarded.
- There is a wide range of content for all tastes: if at the beginning it was famous for ballets, now comic sketches are published, but there is also an educational and didactic vein, with the hashtag #learn withTikTok.
- It is not a platform only for young people: adults and ... grandparents are also present. Over 67% of the members are over 24 years old.
- Children under 13 cannot register.
- Children under 16 cannot access the direct messaging feature and cannot host a live stream.
- Children under the age of 18 cannot send or receive virtual gifts.
- Define time limits.
- Restrict or disable direct messages (for those over 16).
- Restrict viewing of content.
- Make the account private or public.
- Disable the search field.
- Decide who can comment on your child's videos.
- Decide if other people can have access to the videos your child likes.
- Up to 18 years, setting up a private account is recommended.
- Profile photo, cover image and bio are public, so they must be chosen carefully.
- Advise your child not to disclose personal information such as age, home address, telephone number or places they frequent
- Use and all the tools made available by the platform, which allow him to monitor his child's activities without depriving him of his space and freedom of action. Restrictions are not limitations, but protection.
- Helping to select the contents and methods of interaction.
- Teaching critical thinking online to identify any blunders and critical issues and be less conditioned, because in the midst of all the stimuli and positive information there are many links and exploited, misleading and conditioning news.
The guide to the safe use of TikTok is available on the UNC website. It is a decalogue which, as Massimiliano Dona suggests, "is a page to be printed and hung on the refrigerator to always have it at hand", since it helps in 10 steps to improve the shared experience on TikTok.
Explore the application, watch and comment together the videos that appear in the "For You" section. Search for the latest trends and explore effects and filters. Define together the contents that can be published.
Privacy is a key aspect: set up your private account. Profile photo, cover image and bio are public, choose them carefully and make sure your child does not reveal personal information such as age, home address, telephone number or places they frequent.
Thanks to this feature, you can link your TikTok account to that of your teenage child and change some settings that make it more secure: make the account private, block direct messages, define time limits, restrict viewing of content and disable the search function. You can activate it in the "Settings and privacy" section of the app.
You can decide together with your child which actions to allow or restrict other users, for example if they can comment on a video or have a duet with him. Together with your child, choose which actions to allow or limit to define a protected space for movement.
In the "Privacy" section you can define your custom options.
On TikTok it is important that everyone can feel free to express themselves in a positive, safe and inclusive environment. You can report inappropriate content, comments or accounts directly in-app or block unwanted users. Check out the tools available
in the "Security Center".
Responsible, prudent and correct behavior also on TikTok, as in the offline world, must be the basis for the creation and dissemination of each content. Talk about it together and consult the Community Guidelines. The rules are for the protection of
all members of the community.
You can individually choose the daily usage limit of the app, from 40 to 120 minutes, and activate the in-app Time Management function from the "Application Control" in the "Settings and privacy" section to prevent them from not being aware of the flow of time.
In the Safety Center, on the TikTok app and website, you can find several tools to learn more about the safety features and resources available, including the Resources for parents and the Youth Portal. Define spaces and time, even weekly, for content analysis to make them their own.
On TikTok you can find challenges and trends to try together, filters, special effects and sounds to make your content unique. A way to discover your child's passions and to have fun together to strengthen the bond of trust, because a bridge must be created between the two generations.
Be interested and informed about your child's life online and offline, without devaluing and underestimating his life online. Always maintain direct contact and openness to dialogue, must be aware that you are always there, because "knowing" means arriving first.Read also: TikTok: the VIP families who earn the most
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